The V Card..

Hey beautiful people the weekend is far away but  the sun is out, the beaches are calling and the clubs are jumping. Hope everyone is having an amazing week?(smiles)

Well lets get right into today's topic is a very interesting one that I find quite necessary to talk briefly about. Now we live in the 21st century where times have definitely changed and "waiting till the wedding night" seems to be getting, might I say harder?. Honestly I respect any decision that any young lady (no younger than 18) makes about having sexual intercourse. Reasons why I said 18 and above is because I believe that any younger than that you haven't truly found yourself so most of your decisions are influenced by the people/things around you. 

I was having a conversation with 2 of my close friends this week and one of them said to me it's getting so hard keeping a long relationship these days without "giving it up" (conversation lasted about 2hours might I add).Now ladies and gentlemen cause not only ladies wanna wait can I just state one thing if he or she loves you they will wait till you're ready it's not a matter of just waiting till marriage but just waiting to you're physically and emotionally ready. If they cannot respect that then they just ain't worth your love and your time. 

A relationship should not be based on "sex"(You can check down  below for the type of guy you should be on the look out for (my opinion). I'll put up type of girls soon just been busy thinking how perfectly flawless we are (laughs) joking but honestly don't ever go into a relationship focused on whether or not they will stay with you because of that, because you will constantly worry every time you're together. If he/she loves you they will stay with you and if not see it as a blessing in disguise. But always study the type of person you are dating just by meeting up a few times I'm sure you can tell they are the type to want to hit and run. Don't feel pressured to do what you don't want to do, it doesn't make you an alien and if you're ready I hope you and your partner are happy. Carpe Diem Guys!!

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Bee_x
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Simple Ways To Shed The Pounds

Hey guys hope everyone's having a great summer and great week so far. Today's post is a quick one just to keep you guys occupied and Its one everyone can relate to.

Change!!! Changes are been made physical change mental change health change the whole lot so I'm going to keep you updated on my health process. I'm trying to live a more healthier life last summer I lost 34lbs which was great then college started and I gained 6lbs back just towards the end of college I know right? Anyways I get asked what do I do to shed the pounds so I'm going to list out basically what I do... 

How to Live a Healthier Life and Keep The Pounds Off 

1. Exercise! Try and workout out 4-times a week either power walk for 40-minutes or jog (Cardin works on all your body 

15-minutes ab workout)

2. Eat Clean! Cut out the junk. Honestly I only found out Mc Donald's did salads yesterday when I downloaded the app so I can get the free smoothies (laughs). Veggies. Lean meat and protein should be your best friends 

3. Drink water! Drink 2-3 litres of water a day it's great for the body and its free guys. Amazing 

4. Bring a friend! You're wondering what's this got to do with it? Sometimes it can get hard but when you bring someone along on your new journey it gives you an extra boost 

5. Always Remember It's Not a diet. It's a new lifestyle. Don't time it it'll show results eventually 

6. Weigh yourself every two weeks to see results (optional) 

7. Treat yourself once in a while you're allowed just don't go overboard 

8. Try substitute favourite treats for healthier options and eat smaller portions

9. Try and remember no matter what you are amazing and you look great it's only for your health and fitness.

10. Try and eat before 7:30 latest 

Im Out - Ciara ft Nicki Minaj

So hopefully this will help you guys shed some pounds. I'm on that journey with you I have 30lbs to go to reach my total of 60lbs weight loss but I'm not in a rush a day at a time and ill get there eventually. When you think of it as a diet it can get hard so try and see it as a change. 

Feel free to share your daily routine with me I'm open to trying new stuff recently I tried the green juice detox thing (laughs) it wasn't for me. 

Thanks guys for reading. Follow Subscribe and share. YouTube channel under construction should be up and running soon. Carpe Diem Guys!

Picture on the right hand 
March 2012 and April 2013 before the 6lbs add on x_x

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Bee_x

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Different Types Of Guys

Different Types Of Guys 

Hey Guys its been way too long since I've  put a post up and I want to apologize for that been busy with life...

So I've been getting some feedback and requests for topics to blog about and I must say I've been loving them.

Today's post is something I've been contemplating on putting up for a few days now but one of my girls definitely hooked me up with the support I needed (Shout out Bea A).

GUYS...........

OK so I was asked to write on guys and my experience with them, but to be honest I don't know what to say on the matter because in a relationship I always believed for it to work its a two way thing and as much as we'd like to blame the guys for everything its really not all their fault . All I can do is categorize them for you through my experience and hopefully this will help :).

The Care-Free Guy 

So the "care-free" guys you can find them absolutely anywhere,for example like an ex of mine they can be righteous jerks that don't care about you and don't consider you in any way.They worship the ground you walk on for the first few months and after that its more of a forced relationship.These are the guys you need to avoid seriously like I cant stress on how much a guy who is a constant flirt and doesn't seem to care how it affects your relationship is not worth it especially if he thinks its normal.

The Controller

Mr controller the guy you feel you have to change who you truly are for! I've always said if he cant love you for who you are what makes you think by you changing who you are is going to make him love you more? If he doesn't love you for you then there is a huge possibility he will never love you the way you want to be loved. He makes you feel like you are never good enough and no matter what you do he always compares you with someone else and puts your efforts down but still doesn't want to let you go because he knows you  you will find someone better and never look back then he'll have to realize his mistakes.

The Softy 

Ok! ladies we've all dated a softy like its absolutely impossible to hate these guys but then again its so easy to hate them. They worship the ground you walk on, constantly checking up on you, they are incredibly boring but outstandingly on point with your emotions and needs. I absolutely love them but in my experience they just aint my type. Great, sweet usually smart guys but can be incredibly annoying.

The Sexaholic

Now I really cant say much on this because once I sense you are one 
I'm just totally turned off! Ladies be aware of guys like 
these ones you'd find them around the ages of  16-forever lol I joke. These kind of guys you can tell from the first time they say hi because they approach you by telling you you are "sexy" and comment on your assets if you are looking for a long term relationship...Baby girl STEP!!!

The Guy With "SWAG"

My young baby girls reading this "swag" is absolutely acceptable but if hes only about his swag you are likely to be broke by the end of each month trying to impress him by buying him these things to keep him happy and believe me it wont be a relationship for so long after.

Mr Right

He is who you need... You may think all I've done so far is bad mouth guys but its proven that a guy with all these qualities in the right amounts is the perfect Mr Right. My experience with Mr Right well "potential" Mr right is that so far hes got all these things but knows when its too much or too little and thats the way it should be. Someone you can talk to and isn't just your man but also your best friend. Give each other the right amount of space, do everything you use to do but incorporate him in it and vice versa. He's usually loves and adores you from the start, slacks on it but it always on point when necessary calls me funny names and makes me happy and sad now that's why I love my Mr Right lol

So like I said earlier there are different types of guys in this world and we have to kiss a few frogs before we get to our prince. Hopefully with the few obvious ones you'll be able to work  your way to your potential Mr Right :)

Love Bee_X

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