5 Ways to Tell He Just Might Be A Keeper!!

Hey guys welcome to my blog today, hope everyone is having a great day. I have spent my evening catching up on UK Celebrity Big Brother 2015. I love the show its super cray. Anyway, this post is just a little something I was thinking about recently about my relationship and like how do you know your partner is a keeper? Do you ever really know? So here are the 5 simple ways to identify if your “Bae” is a keeper. EnjoyJ

Does He Listen and Pay Attention To You?

Ok I feel like its super important that your man listens to you because, I feel like us as females we tend to crave attention a lot, you can sit there and say no I don’t really care! Ha don’t even go there we all love the attention. I feel text or call in the morning just as you wake up and at night before you go to bed keeps the relationship going. If your man gives you all the attention you need and listens to you, like your worries, your fears, your issues and helps solve or change them then he is definitely a keeper because not all men can handle baggage or drama or even change. If he listens and takes in to consideration how you are feeling about certain things or even people then please hold on to him.

Do Your Conversations Consist of I's or We’s?

When he is making plans does he use the term "I" as in “I can’t wait to be able to go on trips around the world with whoever I’m with” haha. I bet when you hear your man say something like that you are kind of like excuseeee me? Or does he considers you in his plans like “I can’t wait for us to be able to go on trips around the world someday” because if he does; he is a keeper, not only does he put you in his plans, he is actually planning a future with you. I just think that is super cute and it just shows you that he does really care and value your relationship. He sees a future with you.

Have you met His Friends and Family?

If a guy wants you in his life no matter how much of a player or gangster he is, he will introduce you to his friends firstly and also his family. It can be quite scary meeting friends and family because you do want to come across as nice and presentable as possible. I remember the first day I met my boyfriends friend, brother and dad I had no makeup on it was super embarrassing, like I’m not so much of a makeup person but meeting people that I think are quite important I’d like to look my best, he kept sayin; “babe you look beautiful” I was like oh my this is super not cool, but they didn’t care, doubt they noticed but like I really think its nice to get to know his family and friends because it’s like having a new family and they actually are really sweet and caring and they usually are always on your side in arguments. I also feel it gives you an insight to how he is with his family and around his friends. I must say meeting his mum was more nerve wrecking haha our introduction was actually a funny one but that’s for another time. So if you haven’t met his friends and family yet? What are you waiting for?.

Is He God Fearing?

This is one for religious ladies really and it should be top of your list. A man cannot be the head of the house without the support from God. I feel he needs to be able to have a strong relationship with God. I am a Christian and I do believe a personal relationship with God is important, therefore I do think it’s important that whomever I’m with brings to the table better ways to get closer to God.

Can You Trust Him?

Trust is MAJOR! If you need to snoop to find answers, are you going to be snooping for the rest of your life? If you cannot trust the person you are in a relationship with then honestly there is no point in sticking around because a relationship where there is no trust is a very unhealthy relationship. If you do plan on having a future with someone you need to make sure you can trust the person. Love sometimes isn’t enough.

Thats all for today ladies, I hope you enjoyed my post feel free to leave a comment on others ways to tell he is a keeper.

Till Next Time 

Love Bee x

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Long Distance RelationShips

Hey guy's welcome to my blog this week. Hope everyone is having a great weekend so far can't say much for the Saturday rain in Ireland, but I kinda like it (smiles). Anyways, lets get right into this week's topic (smiles) hope everyone's got themselves a nice cup of coffee or tea.. Let's Start!

So today's post  is about Long Distance Relationships this is a topic both guy's and ladies out there can relate to because I know I can definitely relate. Firstly, I definitely can say long distance relationships are hard not going to try and say they aren't at times, you can miss your partner's presence, but they are always just a Facetime call away (laughs), and it's definitely not something for everyone!. Whether they are  miles away in another country or just in another state/county it can be difficult but still possible. You can make it work if you think it i
s worth holding on to. I was watching a few videos some youtubber's made about this same topic with their partners and some alone just a bit of advice on how its hard, but when you're in love and happy its so worth it (See links below).

 1. So the first thing mainly is you've got to trust your partner and believe that he/she is being faithful and loyal. Nobody's perfect but give them the benefit of the doubt. Cause if you don't have faith in them who else will (laughs) people already think you are crazy for being in a long distance relationship. So trust and believe it's worth your time.

2. Never get into a long distance relationship if you don't plan on taking it all the way, why put yourself through all that only to leave your partner? Be true to yourself if you don't see it actually leading to something permanent together then don't commit to it because long distance relationship ain't no joke believe me.

 3. Communication is the key. I think people in long distance relationships understand this more and value it more than some people who are actually in the same place. Like my boyfriend and I talk every day, almost all day, thank God for Facetime and what's app (laughs). Updates on your day to day activities, talk about how you're feeling,what you are up to, little things like this, they do help a lot. Helps the relationship grow and you get more comfortable with each other. And never spend the time you are supposed to be catching up to impose your doubts about the relationship on your partner cause most of the time they also need reassurance just like you do.Also remember to share the load , put the effort in and make it work. It's still a normal relationship, we go through the same issues and have just as many laughs.

#NotEverydayComplain #SometimesMushyMoments #SometimesFckOtherPeoplesOpinions

Personally, I don't think about the distance because that's not really the main focus for me once you're both on the same page and you know what you want its such a fun adventure, and I'd say same for most of the people in one, especially when you are happy and crazy about someone who's super sweet and handsome and caring and understanding and loyal and funny and and ... lol ok lets get back on track (laughs). Then why would you even think of letting go. I've seen some people who are in the same house as their partner and they aren't as happy. Not saying everyone should hop into a long distance relationship now lol it's not a new trend but be in a relationship that works and makes you happy. I'm no expert on relationships (laughs) but I'm very real and the heart knows where it wants to be.

I've personally not been this happy in a relationship in a long time and it's a great feeling. So I wish all my readers the same type of joy, whether their partners are right beside them or in another country.

Hope you guys have enjoyed this short post (tried to fit a lot into a short segment). Feel free to comment and leave any questions.

Quick Shout Out to my amazing Boyfriend Femi (He feels I wouldnt have this post idea if it wasn't for him  thank you baby) x

Have an amazing week guys till next week :) 

Love Bee x

Patricia Bright - Long Distance Advice

Stephanie Ojoh - Our Long Distance Relationship

Cute Long Distance Couple

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Is Cheating A Forgiveable and Forgetable Crime?

Hey Guy's,welcome to my blog this week, hope everyone's had a great week so far, so I thought I'd share a random debate my boyfriend and I were having last weekend about how some people believe it's easy to forgive and forget after their partner has cheated on them even married couples. (Pause)...

 Can I just say ABSOLUTELTY NOT!! I honestly believe once your relationship gets to that point, then there is honesty no going back. Seeing as my boyfriend see's the best in most situations, he believes it possible to get back to how things were which I said he's in fairy land there's no way.

In my personal opinion its hard to forget even if you do forgive, every time he or she leaves the house you are going to be the most paranoid human being ever and there's going to be such a strain on your relationship. Nothing will ever be the same again. Why would you put yourself through all that just to end the relationship eventually anyways?... NO NO NO! 

Save yourself the pain and move on. I know some people believe oh "guys cheat " or "girls cheat" its natural! (straight face). If you believe that,then I wish you all the best. For your partner to have stepped out, then there must have been an issue they didn't believe could have been fixed,or this silly statement people come up with to make themselves feel better. "Now I realise its you I want to be with"... WHAT? It took you cheating to realise Im the one?. Best check yourself.

Basically, all I really want to say is don't stay in a relationship because it's comfortable, once a cheat always a cheat or even just for your own sanity don't. The only way you can take that person back is if they fight for you don't fight for them cause they lost that right when they cheated on you. 

Stay Smiling Guys x

Love Bee x

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My Healthy Food Style??

Hey Beautiful people (smiles) hope everyone had an amazing weekend. 21 day challenge? hows everyone going with that sorry I haven't  been blogging been busy with my 3rd year thesis but I'm back now yay. Time to get ready for the summer holidays

I have tons of things to get sorted before I leave eeeekkk cant wait (Laughs). So I've decided to combine the herbalife post and the detox information together as one just cause I feel like its necessary at this stage (smiles). P.s this is Not for a quick fix

So lets start .....

Firstly I'd like to say I am not a herbalife distributor or coach I am simply just a customer but if you are interested in ordering some herbalife products I will be sure to leave a link below where you can get the products and consult a herbalife coach you can say I referred you to her.

Ok so I have been using herbalife for about 3 weeks now and in the three weeks that I have been using herbalife I lost 4.4lbs which is great for me may not be alot for some but I had been fixed on my weight for some time so a change had to come (laughs). I use the herbalife formula one nutritional shake (NOT PROTEIN SHAKE) and Fibre and herb tablet. The shake is a meal replacement so I'd have two scoops with 250ml low fat milk for breakfast and dinner and have a nutritional meal for lunch. I take the fibre and herb tablets 2 three times a day with each meal. I drink 200-400ml of green tea and 1-2litres of water a day depending on how full I am. I will leave a link to the site below for people interested in herbalife its not only for weight loss they have different products for different people if its gaining muscles or losing fat or just maintaining your presnt weight.

Some days I may add a slice of toast with some peanut butter to my shake or just a banana if I am feeling peckish. I did very little exercising because I was busy with my thesis but I always made sure I did a little YouTube workout. God bless Mr Billy Blanks and his Tae Bo workout videos if not I wouldst have even bothered working out. Il leave a link below.

Cookies and Cream Herbalife Nutritional Shake 

 I am Nigerian so I love rice and bread (my guilty pleasure) but there's nothing wrong with having some but its all about portions so I finally bought a measuring cup and weighing scale just to make sure i'm not over eating and I also bought small bowls to eat in so I don't keep adding food on to my plate. (see I fall off the wagon). So make sure you don't eat more than a cup and a half of rice in that picture on the right is a cup of jollof rice and a cup of steamed mixed vegetables.


 So I use a Chinese green tea for my morning detox drink its called fiyan (you can use any green tea) and I got it at my local pharmacy. I have it with 2 slices of lime and 2 slices of lemon just sometimes if I want a bit of flavor but its great for cleansing the system and speeding up your metabolism for the day. My metabolism personally as you can probably tell is slooooowwww! (laughs) So i drink about 400mls of green tea in the morning and sometimes another 400mls at night.

These are just a few things I eat and drink but I'll put a trial or well rough menu by tomorrow morning of what you could have during the detox challenge in case you are confused.

Thanks for reading see links below. P.s if you have any questions feel free to hit me up any time.

Herbalife Distributor and Coach 

https://www.goherbalife.com/lovelifefit24

or
http://www.herbaie.com/

Tae Bo Workout

http://youtu.be/pu7vwbzTZrI

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Let Love in

Let Love in

Hey Guys hope everyone had an amazing Easter.. So as some of you may know I'm a bit of a lyricist now this isn't me trying to be artsy or deep just channelled some emotions and this came out so hope you enjoy it x

Love

What is love ?

A sweet feeling or a bitter taste 

A never ending dream that never seems to  go away

You pray and hope and plead for such sweet romance 

Yet your body is all they yearn for

They woo you

Singing sweet melodies into your ear

Your beautiful, you're different 

You make me better, I love you 

You fall hopelessly for their lyrics 

You dance to their rhythm 

Change the who that you are

Laugh at their foolishness

Just to show your loyalty

Inhale embarrassment 

Just to prove your ride or die qualities 

Wear rags of shame

Just to keep the price tag of wifey material

While they lie and cheat right before you

In love you fall

Your time they waste 

Tears you cry

Hearts they shatter

The pieces they walked over again and again

Pieces too small to mend back 

Love becomes hate 

Trust issues become your friend

Paranoia your adviser 

Insecurity your best clothing 

And hate your armour 

You stand a feminist 

Only fighting against love not 

For love and equality

You hide behind your walls 

Scared to let anyone dare break them 

You yearn for "the one"

Yet you fear the re-run of the past episodes 

You refuse to wear the same rags 

So you live hidden yet naked in darkness 

You desire the fairytale 

You wonder behind the curtains 

Why am I so unlucky?

When will I wear "wifey"?

You become your own nightmare 

Envious lonely ugly and bitter 

Men you rebel against 

How will you ever fall in love again?

Just let love in..

This in no way is me trying to have a dig at love or men or girls who go through these situations. Love is a beautiful experience when shared between two people who care for one another. Just some people are not so lucky and tend to lose hope and forget that not every guy is your ex or every girl. Permit yourself to love again because you do deserve better but you've got to let love in.

Have an amazing week guys and don't forget let someone love you because you deserve the best mwah x

Love 

Bee x

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The Huge Complication

Hey ladies and hopefully gentlemen. It's been a very long time since I blogged like 4-5 months?, not sure but I'm back and I've got new plans coming up for fashion and stuff so all you beautiful fashionistas and fashion trend setters stay tuned.

Ok! let's get straight into it "the huge complication", you must all be wondering what I'm talking about but it's like the biggest complication of all time in my opinion.. Are you ready for it? Falling for your BEST FRIEND. It's like the most awkward thing ever right?. One day it's like "awww my besto (zoned)" the next it's like "he/she gets me."

Now what are you to do? Tell him/her and ruin your great friendship if he/she doesn't feel the same way? or get together then it doesn't work out and you end up single with one less friend? or just keep all your feelings inside and try get over him/her? These are the questions that run through your mind. 

What about the bigger issue of when the person is actually in a relationship of their own?

Believe me personally it's better to wait until you fully know you are really into the person before ruining your friendship and their relationship with their partner or at least till they are single again because at the end of the day you're only  human you're allowed to fall in love with whomever you want or it could just be you want them now because they are with someone either way wait and see. It's complicated and awkward if you've been "zoned" but if he/she is a good friend they will understand and they will help you get through it as weird and awkward as it may get trust me you'll get over it eventually. 

Ps: If he/she is happy with their partner, I suggest you move on not worth ruining a happy relationship.

So that's all I have today I hope you enjoyed that little segment if you have any further questions regarding this situation feel free to comment below you can do it anonymously if you want and I will be happy to help in whatever way I can. 

Stay Happy Guys.. Mwah x

Love Bee

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The V Card..

Hey beautiful people the weekend is far away but  the sun is out, the beaches are calling and the clubs are jumping. Hope everyone is having an amazing week?(smiles)

Well lets get right into today's topic is a very interesting one that I find quite necessary to talk briefly about. Now we live in the 21st century where times have definitely changed and "waiting till the wedding night" seems to be getting, might I say harder?. Honestly I respect any decision that any young lady (no younger than 18) makes about having sexual intercourse. Reasons why I said 18 and above is because I believe that any younger than that you haven't truly found yourself so most of your decisions are influenced by the people/things around you. 

I was having a conversation with 2 of my close friends this week and one of them said to me it's getting so hard keeping a long relationship these days without "giving it up" (conversation lasted about 2hours might I add).Now ladies and gentlemen cause not only ladies wanna wait can I just state one thing if he or she loves you they will wait till you're ready it's not a matter of just waiting till marriage but just waiting to you're physically and emotionally ready. If they cannot respect that then they just ain't worth your love and your time. 

A relationship should not be based on "sex"(You can check down  below for the type of guy you should be on the look out for (my opinion). I'll put up type of girls soon just been busy thinking how perfectly flawless we are (laughs) joking but honestly don't ever go into a relationship focused on whether or not they will stay with you because of that, because you will constantly worry every time you're together. If he/she loves you they will stay with you and if not see it as a blessing in disguise. But always study the type of person you are dating just by meeting up a few times I'm sure you can tell they are the type to want to hit and run. Don't feel pressured to do what you don't want to do, it doesn't make you an alien and if you're ready I hope you and your partner are happy. Carpe Diem Guys!!

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